Damn bad coz busy until no time 2 rest n write blog...
1st incidents-27/3/2009
Last fri,v need summit our pr ass b4 2pm...
A take d pr ass 2 combine,so v all juz waiting her in campus n summit 2gather...
bout 10+am,v saw all d coursemates oso prepare 2 hard copies n 2 soft copies,v dunno A noe bout it anot...So v juz phone her n tell her...She said okok...
But when she arrive,she juz bring 2 soft copies n 1 hard copy,v ask...
Xiew Jiun n PF : Juz now v no phone u 2 make both soft n hard copies 2 meh???Y u juz bring 1 hard copy???
A : No...Last week Ms Gan said juz 1 hard copy.
PF : But every1 summit 2 copies leh.
Although v said lidat,but she still dun wan listen 2 us...V juz go n summit lo...
Then inside Ms Gan's room...
Ms Gan : Y u summit 1 hard copy???
A : Ms Gan, last week u said juz 1 hard copy.
Ms Gan : No,i din said 1 copy,early i oledi told u is 2 copies.Every group oso summit 2 copies.
A : No...I heard 1 copy.
Really cnt imagine tat she argue wif lecturer tat time.Y she din listen 2 us???
2nd incident-31/3/2009
Tue morning,v juz get d pm slides hard copy from A.V gonna present on d next day,wed.
When v receive it,v found a lot of mistakes.No pengenalan,no isi kandungan,no title 4 each slides,no graphic at all,many words in 1 slide, n d most important,PF's part not inside d slides,how she gonna present???Then v juz ask her 2 get d soft copy so tat v can take it edit.
At 1st,she said dun wan,no need edit,juz present it 2molo.But v tink tat is not good enough 2 present,v wanna it b done in better.So i suggest tat v redo d slides according 2 her hard copy n edit.PF n HC oso agree.So v start 2 redo d slides.Then she suddenly said gv us d soft copy at nit.
But v oledi start redo,so v still continue do it n wanna insert it into her slides at nit.Summore,tat nit v dun hv time gather 2gather n edit it.When ce class,she came in n saw us redo d slides,din understand d whole situation,juz went out n cried.
v dun realized at 1st...Suddenly,C came inside d class n yelling at us.
C : wat r u all doing???D slides u do it 4 wat???
Xiew Jiun : V redo d slides coz many mistake...
C : tats mean 2molo u all dun wan use A's slides???(tone not so good)
HC : No la...v juz.......(stop by C)
C : U all noe A do tis slides until 3am last nit???She spending few nits until midnit 2 finish it,n now u all redo n dun wan use her slides.(yelling at us)
Xiew Jiun : (I'm angry n reply bek)I din ask her do it until mid nit 3am.V hv pass all d info 2 her long long time ago.
C : Do u all tink bout her feelings???
Then she go out and I can feel some "special eyesight"...V juz wan d best,izit wrong???Y can't juz think from d other side???Y muz think from 1 side???She done it until midnit was her time management problem mah...Y blame on us pula???But mayb v oso did wrong coz din communicate well wif her 1st...So i tell HC n PF tat v go apologize n explain nicely to A...When v found A outside d class,she juz keep blame on herself,said tat she so stupid,a little bit things oso cannot do well... #$%%$#&(can't remember all she said)Then v wait her stop n calm down 1st,but when she finish keep blaming on herself,she juz walk away...V try 2 call her at d bek,ask her listen 2 us,but she dun care...Y she juz can't listen 2 us???
3rd incident
A wan me n PF do d pr slides as she n C hv do d combination n HC no laptop...A n C choose me as d ce presentation leader, I dun wan but they oledi summit d name n group 2 lecturer.A wanna me think 4 d topic n do d slides.At 1st, I dunno her meaning is wan me think all d points n do all d slides,I thought is they think their own points n pass 2 me put inside d slides n I as d leader will do d introduction n conclusion.Tis sat I got teambuilding high tea,I oso need 2 help 2 do d slides n brochures.A send tis email 2 me n PF.
2/4/2009
dear all,
plz be noted that i would lik to have the presentation slides by tonight in my mail box.sharon for the PR and xiew juin for CE also.
thanks regards alicia
How can I rush 3 slides n brochures in a few days???Summore I got dance practice 4 d high tea performance...She wanna go bek hometown so need us rush d slides 4 her b4 fri as our presentation is on mon n tue...I think I can't finish it tat time,so i email her...
2/4/2009
v r very sorry tat v din get d reommendation soft copy from u yet...
tis is d draft tat v hv done...
still got sumthing 2 add in n edit...
but alicia n carmen parts oledi done.
d regulations part,v hv try but still dunno how 2 summary,very sorry...could u done it by urself???
N carmen's part-pr social
v hv summarised it b4 u tell us wat u wan us put inside.
so there is 2 part...
juz choose which part tat u like...
if u wanna edit 4 ur own part,after edit plz send u soft copy so tat v can insert it bek 2 full slides. 4 d phoos,v put it juz bcoz v wanna try cc...
if really dislike,juz tell us n delete it...
4 ce slides,i can tell u tat i not yet start
bcoz tis few days got dance practice,need do t/b slides,help pei fern do pr slides...
so really busy n no time...
summore i got a bit blur,tats y i sms u n carmen ask 4 ur suggestion
but none of u reply me...
so i din start yet...
i'll try 2 rush it 2nit,if cnt,i'm very sorry,coz i hv ask u gals help 2 divide d jobs,choose d part u wan n send 2 me,but seems like both of u dun wan...inside i'll only put in d main points,is very simple slides...
But...Wat reply I n PF get,I think no1 can guess...
3/4/2009
here is d recommendation...hello, just u guys busy la?? i'm not busy?? i hav dance prac oso, i hav other slides to do oso ma..i even hav my chinese 2 do..but did i complain??? just becoz u dunno how 2 do our part den u complain??? it's all in d assignmenti oso duno bout d PM lo, den how come i manage??THOU U GUYS CHANGED MY SLIDES LOwhat eva la..u guys said ok will do d slides den just do d whole thingdun even ask me to check as i din do tat 2 u guys...
There is a thorn inside between us...She still remember d incident b4 n emphasize in her reply email.Wat can I do???
2/4/2009, I msg A n C tat
"I'm sorry tat i tink there mayb sum misunderstanding between us.4 d ce presentation,plz do ur own part, nu can send me d info n i do d slides.I hv chose my own part.I wanna do d benefits of sex education."
I thought tat they will do on their own as d whole nit I din receive any reply.But on 3/4/2009,A reply me tat
"sorry lo,i very ja 1 ma.Do 1 pm slides oso not tim. Ce i dun1 screw up lo.U can do d whole ting:)"
Wat she mean???She wan me do all things???Impossible lo...Then i reply her bek tat
"Not ur fault la.Act is v lack of communication n discussion la.U din join us do pm ass,u dunno wat v wanna put inside d slides,n v din discuss it.So i tink now u can tink ur own points,n v discuss it whether suitable anot lo.Tis is group work,not individual work,i oso dun wan b autocratic leader la"
I oledi "built a good stairs" 4 her,but she wanna accept anot,I can't control de.6/4/2009 need present ce liao...N yet tat morning I still din receive any news from A...I did do backup but I din tell her,coz I dun wanna do d whole thing 4 her...Coz y I need b so hard n do all d things n she juz take it present n get marks???Totally unfair lo...Fortunately at noon,she do her own part n our presentation can run smoothly...
4th incident 6/4/2009-7/4/2009
I hv pass up d pr slides 2 all group members on 5/4/2009 through msn...But A din receive it coz she on9 but not there...So i send email 2 her,but i'm blur blur n 4got 2 attach d files.So wat she receive is only d words i typed jek.I really feel sorry 2 her so when i bek home,i quickly resend d email wif attachment,but she "shoot" me in msn...I oledi apologize 2 her tat i made a mistake,n i oledi resend d email...But she still keeping "blaming" on me...So i send her again via msn...AL chatting wif me tat time,i copy all d content in msn 2 her,she said tat she still angry wif me,d words she type seems like wanna find me 2 quarrel...I oso noe,but i can't do anything coz afternoon still need present ce with her.So i muz "tahan" until no presentation same group wif her.
My pr presentation,A n C changed front,colour,background of d slides tat I n PF done,but i din get angry coz v dun hv enough time,mayb v din do d best.They can edit wat they wan,but wat makes me angry is they change my part.C hv told me b4 tat i cnt change or edit her part,so i din touch anything,but y now she change my part???I really get angry,wat i hv prepared 4 my presentation cnt b use,n i only notice tat my part hv been change juz b4 10 mins of d presentation.I really get angry tat time but my frens ask me calm down coz need present.Fortunately our presentation still can b consider as run smoothly although i'm angry.Tis is d last presentation same group wif them,really feel happy after d presentation...Like get bek my freedom,no need "tahan",can say wat i like...
I tink tat i hv try my best 2 talk nicely wif her,but wat reply i get really out of my mind...Ppl relationship really complicated...Did i choose d right course???Or i choose d wrong fren???Or izit my problem???Y she juz can't stop 4 a while n listen 2 us???Y she oways juz stand on her own point n cnt listen 2 us???Am i doing d right things???When tis problem can b fix???Many many questions in my mind but no ans...
